March 20, 2023 - Man Down

Today is the last day before Ramadhan comes. I feel like I need to take care of myself of the negative things that happened in my life. Once, I invest my life in the wrong person. I have known this person for a long period of time. I never take him for granted. It is purely connected to what I did in the past couple of years back. 

When a man doesn't wanna change, he will find a girl that's ok with his lifestyle, so that he doesn't have to grow up. That's why these weak men will accuse a strong woman of having an attitude, but she actually just has standards and boundaries. She's not gonna put up with your foolishness and she's gonna require you to be a good man, and eventually, you're gonna leave and accuse her of being too masculine or independent for the simple fact she held you accountable for your actions. Ladies, don't ever think you're not good enough for a man, sometimes you're just "too much"

If someone thinks you're too much, set them free so they can go find less. No need to find out how he's doing out there, just see his state. if his "rejeki" is hardened, that means he lied a lot. You will make a dumb decision if you don't love yourself. 

Stop dating broke men. Stop helping struggling men. Stop loving men at their lowest. Stop feeling pity for men who can't make a living for themselves. Men never look back after finding themselves. Unless you're doing it for the sake of God.

Is it your fault that you have a messed up relationship? or are you having a normal reaction to a partner that does not communicate, won't validate you, bails without warning, send mixed messages, give no reassurance, isn't affectionate, never initiates, claims all their exes are mad, is flaky, breaks promises. when I'm in love I love heavily if you betray me you're dead to me, and I disrespect you respectfully.

You disrespect yourself when you beg a boy for the bare minimum of things like love, attention, support, etc. There are men out there that would literally buy you the entire world. Stay woke. if you ignore me I will ignore you back. If you don't start the conversation, then we won't talk. if you don't put in effort why should I?

Girl. You study, you work, you are responsible, you dress well, you put yourself together every morning, you manage your money, you are educated and respectful, you are loyal, and you have visions and plans for the future. Who doesn't value that? Don't deserve you.